Complicated Simplicity

If you can't stand to lose some-thing. Then you shouldn't have it all.
To some this may mean learning to deal with the loss of some-thing, or some-one.
To others this could mean not designating the title "theirs" to some-thing or some-one, even more so not even associating any-thing or any-one as theirs.
Deal with loss or avoid it completely? I'm not sure if the latter is possible.